When it comes to manifesting your soul mate, it’s easy to get caught up in the idea of the perfect person. You may make a long list of qualities that your ideal partner should possess, hoping that the universe will bring that person to you. But what if you focused instead on imagining the perfect relationship?
As the saying goes, be careful what you wish for, because you just might get it. This was certainly the case for me. I once made a long list of qualities that my perfect match would have, and not long after finishing the list, I met a man who seemed to fit the bill perfectly. He checked every tick mark except one – he didn’t garden. But he was a multimillionaire who was willing to learn how to garden, so I thought the universe had handed me my happily ever after.
However, things didn’t go as planned. While he was an amazing man, the relationship wasn’t anything like the one I truly wanted. We only dated for a few months before I decided to end it. I didn’t want to be entangled in a less than ideal relationship and miss out on getting the one I wanted and deserved.
After that experience, I spent a lot of time trying to figure out where I went wrong in my manifestation practice. It took me another couple of years before I realized that the perfect relationship isn’t about finding the perfect person; it’s about creating the perfect dynamic between two people.
I quit dating because I knew that I would never be able to develop the type of relationship I was looking for within that context. In the meantime, I stopped actively searching for my soul mate and started pursuing my own goals and dreams. I focused on learning to truly love myself and building the life that I wanted.
As the years went by, I became so happy that I didn’t even want a romantic relationship. I was too content with my life to want to risk it. And then, when I least expected it, there it was – the perfect relationship for me. There was no fear, no doubt, just admiration, and support that turned into over-the-top love.
So, what did I learn from this experience? When it comes to manifesting your soul mate, it’s not about finding the perfect person – it’s about finding the perfect relationship. This means imagining the type of relationship that you want and then allowing the universe to bring it to you in its own time and way.
To help you manifest your soul mate, here are a few tips:
- Focus on the feeling: Instead of focusing on a laundry list of qualities, focus on how you want to feel in a relationship. Do you want to feel loved, supported, and cherished? Visualize what that feels like.
- Love yourself: Before you can attract a loving relationship, you need to love yourself. Work on building your self-esteem, practicing self-care, and pursuing your own goals and dreams.
- Let go of expectations: Don’t try to force the universe’s hand by imposing your expectations on what your soul mate should look like. Trust that the universe knows what you truly need and will bring it to you in its own way.
- Be patient: Manifesting your soul mate is not an overnight process. Be patient, trust the process, and enjoy the journey.
Remember, the universe has a plan for you, and your soul mate is out there waiting for you. By focusing on the feeling, loving yourself, letting go of expectations, and being patient, you can manifest the perfect relationship that you truly deserve.